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Forgiveness in the Family
« em: 22 de Maio de 2010, 21:29 »
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When the home environment, on account of heavy moral commitments arise frustrating their sincere wishes of happiness, not to abandon him, persevere a bit more, because everything in life tends to become.

While you can not be understood by those who are bound to you by blood ties, employ the understanding and patience necessary for the maintenance of peace you want.

Remember, the brother is probably hard to dislike yesterday's resurgent today, on behalf of aggrieved creditor, claiming the adjustment of our debts.

The intransigent spouse almost always brings the subconscious with the marks of neglect that hurt in distant past, transforming the home of today into a veritable laboratory for moral improvement.

As difficult as it is the coexistence in the home, do not take hasty actions. Arm yourself with a bit more patience and look for the partner or partner not only the qualities and defects.

Do not scorn the wisdom of God that you put together for the construction of your happiness.

Fulfill its part. Change your attitudes and thoughts before demanding change from others who live with you.

Nobody drops a living for themselves without receiving necessary, appointments even more severe than those who are living today.

Do not destroy the home on account of selfish interests and worldly. Remember, those who brought to life with us, which often do not tolerate the presence, not help them and not learn to love them tomorrow, will return to join us in imposing conditions even more distressing.

That's a scorned wife today may return tomorrow on condition that a child problem, forcing us to an even greater sacrifice.

How many spouses betrayed and abandoned in the past are now reincarnated as children of the unhappy wives of yore, charging them dearly for the folly of betrayal and abandonment.

To these mothers and fathers, easily identified by the difficult relationship with his children, I advise them to do the mentalizações reconciliation, helping to erase, the subconscious of their children, the negative images recorded in the past.

The home is the sanctuary where we build the foundation of our happiness. The tax payable is the resignation and forgiveness. Without this we pay tribute, never consolidate our happiness.

Before hitting the chest and scream for their rights, observe whether he is fulfilling its obligations. I do not speak of the obligations of bread and shelter but of moral obligations to your wife or husband and to his children. You are giving them the example of loyalty, love and understanding? Already can leave outside the door the mood and issues that do not relate to your family? Ask yourself these questions and analyze deeply. By doing so, is approaching self-knowledge that will lead you to find the way to happiness, if that's what you really want.

Continues...

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Re: Forgiveness in the Family
« Responder #1 em: 22 de Maio de 2010, 21:33 »
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My experience allows me to talk to about this property:

He was married for two years. He had a son with one year and three months and another two months and a few days. One morning as I rose to go to work, I looked at the cradle of my son two months and with an immense pain in the heart I realized he was dead. After the shock we had my wife and I, we made preparations for the funeral. The moment his little body was on the table, my mother saw the spirit of a woman approaching him, laughing heartily. From that day my life changed.

My wife had never been aggressive, started to mistreat me. My business started to decline so that during the period of eight months, I could not even pay the rent of the house where he lived. All my plans seemed to go downhill, even threatened to miss the food. In this difficult climate, we had another child.

Time passed ...

With much struggle, I managed to balance me financially, but the deal got worse with my wife, my first son who had almost three years old, claimed to see a woman walking by our house.

One day while returning from work, without any reason, my wife tried to attack me. Knowing what it was, I kept calm. I opened my arms and prayed with faith. She immediately fell to the floor, I soon realized it was the spirit that my mother and my son had seen. With friendly words, I tried to convince her to abandon this pursuit, however, his hatred for me was all the shouting:

- "Cursed ... I'll kill you! "

This scene repeated itself for four years, two or three times a week, and every attack I gave him what was best in me, treating it with respect and affection. Thanks to the Spiritist knowledge, I knew something bad had done for that sister, in another life.

They were the last days of June 1972. In the morning we were talking, me, my wife and my brother, when our sister entered again. Cried a lot. Moved I cried too. I felt at that time had won her pardon. We talked in tears, and when he left, he promised no more harassing us. Soon after my brother in law embodied a spirit that did not reveal his name, but told us the following:

- "My brother, God has given you the opportunity to turn that hate into love. Our sister reborn as your daughter, prepare the crib, come on the figure of a beautiful girl with bright eyes. This is proof that I give. "

Really! Soon my wife conceived, and in April 1973, my daughter was born, a beautiful girl with bright eyes! It was a great test, especially for my wife who still had some doubts about eternal life. Thanks to the experience with my mother, the fact came only confirm the growing faith that since childhood, without which, my home would have collapsed.

The biggest proof came later ...

Because of the hatred that her sister had for me, and that in so little time could not be erased from your subconscious, during pregnancy, my wife felt influenced by it enough to feel disgust for me.

During the nine months pregnant, my relationship with my wife was very difficult, I needed a lot of patience to overcome. Once born, when he was a few months old I could not touch her. To pick her up, immediately put up screaming as if in pain, it was enough to hand it to someone, immediately calmed down.

Until three years of age had a very difficult. I always looked at with reservation and rarely responded to my questions. He joked and smiled at everyone but me.

Not outside my knowledge spiritualist, maybe if this aversion had perpetuated until today. I arrived a few moments to think about quitting to conquer it, my pain was very great, the more I tried to approach me, she rejected me rudely. After all, I kept insisting, until finally I could conquer it.

One day, when I got home, I was playing in the garden, looked at her and contrary to what he always did that was to run to her mother, ran to me and embraced me, kissed me first. Cried thrilled. Today, we love a lot!

Nelson Moraes

Excerpted from the book: "Forgiveness - The Path of Happiness" - Author: Nelson Moraes / Guided by the Spirit Aulus

Plenty of peace :)

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Re: Forgiveness in the Family
« Responder #2 em: 26 de Maio de 2010, 19:41 »
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Beautiful words Marccello. Is this book which you refrence  "Forgiveness - The Path of Happiness"  by Nelson Moraes,  available in english?

Thank you,
Debi

Citação de: Marccello em 22 de Maio de 2010, 21:29

When the home environment, on account of heavy moral commitments arise frustrating their sincere wishes of happiness, not to abandon him, persevere a bit more, because everything in life tends to become.

While you can not be understood by those who are bound to you by blood ties, employ the understanding and patience necessary for the maintenance of peace you want.

Remember, the brother is probably hard to dislike yesterday's resurgent today, on behalf of aggrieved creditor, claiming the adjustment of our debts.

The intransigent spouse almost always brings the subconscious with the marks of neglect that hurt in distant past, transforming the home of today into a veritable laboratory for moral improvement.

As difficult as it is the coexistence in the home, do not take hasty actions. Arm yourself with a bit more patience and look for the partner or partner not only the qualities and defects.

Do not scorn the wisdom of God that you put together for the construction of your happiness.

Fulfill its part. Change your attitudes and thoughts before demanding change from others who live with you.

Nobody drops a living for themselves without receiving necessary, appointments even more severe than those who are living today.

Do not destroy the home on account of selfish interests and worldly. Remember, those who brought to life with us, which often do not tolerate the presence, not help them and not learn to love them tomorrow, will return to join us in imposing conditions even more distressing.

That's a scorned wife today may return tomorrow on condition that a child problem, forcing us to an even greater sacrifice.

How many spouses betrayed and abandoned in the past are now reincarnated as children of the unhappy wives of yore, charging them dearly for the folly of betrayal and abandonment.

To these mothers and fathers, easily identified by the difficult relationship with his children, I advise them to do the mentalizações reconciliation, helping to erase, the subconscious of their children, the negative images recorded in the past.

The home is the sanctuary where we build the foundation of our happiness. The tax payable is the resignation and forgiveness. Without this we pay tribute, never consolidate our happiness.

Before hitting the chest and scream for their rights, observe whether he is fulfilling its obligations. I do not speak of the obligations of bread and shelter but of moral obligations to your wife or husband and to his children. You are giving them the example of loyalty, love and understanding? Already can leave outside the door the mood and issues that do not relate to your family? Ask yourself these questions and analyze deeply. By doing so, is approaching self-knowledge that will lead you to find the way to happiness, if that's what you really want.

Continues...


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Re: Forgiveness in the Family
« Responder #3 em: 27 de Maio de 2010, 02:33 »
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Hi Debi!

I think that there is no such book in English ... unfortunately ..

I'll post excerpts from this book here at the Forum ... Ok! ;)

Big hug!

Plenty of peace :)

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Re: Forgiveness in the Family
« Responder #4 em: 27 de Maio de 2010, 13:11 »
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Obrigado Marccello!!!

Blessings to you :-)
--Debi


Citação de: Marccello em 27 de Maio de 2010, 02:33
Hi Debi!

I think that there is no such book in English ... unfortunately ..

I'll post excerpts from this book here at the Forum ... Ok! ;)

Big hug!

Plenty of peace :)


Registado


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